Monday 24 June 2019

Loosing Does Not Mean Giving Up

By Ryan Davis


Problems are natural part of our lives. It is actually the most important tool for a person to improve. We must admit that a person, who never suffers any major in his or her life even once, is most likely to commit suicide whenever such person is rejected or feel disappointed. Its only right to suffer from difficulties because life is indeed full of challenges.

Most are afraid to make a big decision, which is why most of us remain in the level where people do not give us any care. It is very natural to be afraid of something, but being afraid does not mean that one is not allowed to overcome such. Overcoming any obstacles is in fact our inborn talent as a human being.

As a matter of fact, one failure does not define you as a person. There are many reasons why a person fails. In our lives, health and mental condition are sometimes the reason why we fail. In sports, lack of proper training or overdoing it may be a reason for failure. Such is only natural so you there is no need to worry about it, there is always a next time.

However, no matter what the reason is, failing is not always the end. That is actually an indication that there are still a lot of rooms for your improvement. Come on, we are a human being, designed for endless evolution. We evolve through the environment and of course training.

All big things actually came from a very small beginning. No one started from the top, and nothing has even started big. In a race, you have to begin from the start. You will not be able to win a match by starting at the end. Even the greatest fighter in the history of boxing suffered countless of defeat before he became the champion.

However, in every goal that we want to achieve, changes as a requirement, does not happen overnight. In order for us to evolve, we have to make changes. But for us to make a change, consistency is very important. We will not become stronger just by lifting weights for the whole day. By analogy, we cannot become better just by doing it once.

If you do not want to suffer pain, please do not expect for any gain. In fact, the more pain you felt, means more pleasure you will have eventually. In other words, if you are aiming to be the best means a lot of pains and sacrifices. But no one would care about that, people only see the result.

The will of a person differs depending on its environment. Sometimes, we need the support of our family and those people we value the most for us to gain confidence. There are also persons who do not want their family to get involved. These people enjoy being alone because for them, independence is a sign of maturity.

We have to remember that all things come with a price. And the price for success is to work really hard. One cannot have all the things in this world but he can try at least. Such is in fact the best thing in our society, no one will stop you from doing you best in order to achieve you goal. Parents and families are always there to support us in every decision we make.




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