Friday, 12 December 2014

The Significance Of A Gay Guide To Fabulous Living

By Lucia Weeks


There are millions of gay people around world, but only thousands of them who showed themselves to the society. There are still some of them who are hiding from their own shells and scared to show who they really are. The negative things and threats they have heard in the environment are the primary reasons why they feel fear for their own lives.

But, always remember that no one is forcing you to come out, especially if you fee unsafe to expose the truth that you are a gay. Instead, stay away from the place and attend to support groups that can help you cope with your sexuality and live in a more liberal world where you can express yourself. This would be a good start for you and to consider a gay guide to fabulous living.

Yes, there are times that you are hating your sexuality. But, if you have discovered the world and gain friends who accept you, you will also learn to trust and believe everything about you and realized that the world is not that unfair after. All You cannot change everything about you, since it is the nature that has created you.

You have only to live once, so you should also give your best to live life to the fullest. Yes, there are challenges, opportunities and skills that you need to make the most of it. Thus, you need to live your life as if it is the last. Do not follow the step of others who did not give themselves a chance to live life and just commit suicide.

As you can see, problems are not always there and solutions are always present. But, once you commit suicide, it is permanent. So, even your life seems so difficult, but you have to follow your heart and accept everything. You may consider freedom to choose your own life. You have to choose a fabulous living.

It is a great time to fight and overcome your difficulties and to become brave enough to face all these challenges. You did not choose to be that way, but you are. So, love yourself for being who you are. Hating what your are may only leads to bitterness. No one wants to be bitter forever. So, learn to accept who you are and you will free yourself from hatred.

Once you believed that you have done nothing bad against others, that you are a good and worthwhile individual, then you deserved to be happy and satisfied. You can be much you wish other people to know you more, especially your sexuality based on your family, culture, religion and workplace.

Once you have accepted your own sexuality, it seems that you have defeated your own fear and others who turn you down in the past. It is time to celebrate the things that was given to you. Great acceptance is another way to obtain a quality and fabulous living.

Once you have accepted everything about you, you can also start to encourage others to come out and not to fear about what other people say. It is your own decision and no one can dictate you for the things to be done. Before the community, your family and society will accept you, you will be the first to trust and believe your capabilities to be accepted by them.




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