Tuesday 29 November 2016

How To Choose Newlywed Romantic Gifts To Brides And Grooms

By Christopher Richardson


Celebrating the union of two people is a milestone that deserves all the gifts and blessings in the world. It is not everyday that an individual finds someone they choose to be with for the rest of their lives and this kind of happiness should be shared with friends and family. The gifts that are received by the couple are a symbol that the people they both love are supportive of their union.

Wedding gifts can either be the things you give to the bride and groom or what you get from them. The concern actually lies more on the what attendees of the wedding should be giving them. Finding good newlywed romantic gifts are not as romantic as they should actually be practical.

Many people attending these events may already have a template of what they want to give. The downside is that there is a large possibility that they are not aware of what they should avoid giving. The point of giving a present is not only to convey how thoughtful and generous a person is, but in this case, how much they care about the newlyweds success in their marriage.

They already have a lot to spend on the event and since they are tying the knot, they probably are planning to have kids. There would be no need for more cute creatures in one household nor do they need the financial obligation. If the couple already has pets, then it would be better to have a well designed basket of treats and toys that their current pets want.

Monogrammed objects are not as practical as you may like to think, romantic maybe. Only get this if the bride and groom personally asked you to. If you are not the closest to them, it may be best to leave the embroidered towels and items alone, lest you want to risk putting in the wrong letters or names.

Self help books as gifts may be counter productive. No matter how well meaning you are, this may just be seen as a rude gesture. It would be like blatantly telling the couple that they may be inadequate to, one be a couple or two, raise kids. This mishap can blow to epic proportions especially when you are attending one that you did not know was a shotgun wedding.

Pieces of furniture, large or small ones should be given second thoughts. Choosing the right one would take a lot of time, research and even preparation. This is to make sure that everything in their home aesthetically fits. Buying them should be left to the newlyweds. If they say that they want a particular piece and you seem apprehensive on the details, then just choose to give money for them to purchase it.

A mortal sin in gift giving is re gifting. This should not even be on the list but there may be those that may think that this will save them money, if they really have nothing to spare. There is no shame in that, but best just not to give anything other than your best wishes if that is the case.

If nothing extra creative goes in your head while deciding on a present, money is the safest bet. It is even very likely that is what these newlyweds want and are just to polite to ask for. Apparently, it seems like a shortcoming on etiquette if you ask for cash on your wedding day.




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